Picture this:
You're having a girls night out and decide to "jump" into the nightlife.
The music is loud and the alchohol is richely poured.
The lbd's are fitted and boys are watching every sexy move you make.
Being sexy and all this handsome fellah aproaches you and starts a nice conversation. If the conversation nears the end and he asks you for your pin instead of your phone number; scream hell no or run out of the club LOL.
The social media has a huge impact on our daily lifes.
That means that our lovelifes are unnoticed influenced by it to.
Now don't get me wrong. A smart phone is a excellent gadget to get to know somebody without spending extra money on your bill or being scared to call for the first time. You can aproach someone much easier and getting to know someone with your blackberry- or Iphone messenger gives it an extra dimension.
However, eventually that first phone call has to be made and risks has to be taken.. That's what love is all about.
The disadvantages of having a smartphone is the highly expectations you'll create of one and other. You would probably expect that handsome guy to "text" you more often, because you're so "easily" to approach. Or you would keep on playing that "cat/ mouse" game by not "texting" him first.
Remember: guys do NOT play by these selfmade rules. Eventually you will be OR disapointed in the guy (without him even knowing), disgust by him because he's not answering quickly enough or reads what you're saying but not answering at all, etc, etc..
This will erase the actual fun you can have with a smartphone and he's probably a click away of being deleted.
Is this a story you can relate to? Then please stop now and keep the fun alive..
You don't want that cutey to disappear, now don't you?!
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